Of course, you can't walk around the office grabbing your derriere every time you sit down. To find a supported sitting position without embarrassing yourself, follow these directions.
Back up to your chair until the back of your knees are touching the edge of the seat. Put one foot about three quarters of a foot length forward. Transfer your weight to the front leg then bend forward at the hip joint. It's the same position your body takes when skiing. Maintain your weight on the front leg. Bend your knees and lower your body towards the chair using the strong muscles of your quadriceps. Transfer your weight to the back leg as you approach the seat but keep your torso leaning forward.
Right as you are about to make contact with the seat imagine you have a big bushy squirrel tail that you have to get out of the way before you sit down. This will require you to lift your tailbone up slightly, just before you lower yourself onto the chair. You should be sitting correctly.
The most common mistake people make as they practice this is shortening the back of the neck as they imagine lifting their squirrel tail. Try it again, letting your gaze rest on the floor momentarily as you lower yourself into your chair. This will help you keep the back of your neck lengthened.
Reverse the process to stand up. Sitting toward the front of your chair, put one foot slightly forward and one foot back. Lean forward from your hip joint (maintaining the length in the back of your neck). As you continue to lean forward, your weight will eventually be over your legs. When it is, stand up -- again using the strong leg muscles. (If you fall out of the chair, you missed it. Try again.)
As you get used to the feeling of having your weight supported by your pelvis and appropriately transmitted to your chair seat through your sit bones, you will begin to let your shoulders relax onto the central support of your spine. Without this support you expend an enormous amount of energy trying to hold yourself up with your shoulders. This is a common cause of upper back, shoulder and neck tension.
Now you can experiment with creative slouching. Adjust your chair to support your lower back. Then lean back against the lumbar support of your chair without letting your sit bones roll out of contact with the seat. Try crossing your legs without rolling off your sit bones. Learning supported sitting provides you with many new additions to your repertoire of movement patterns.
Like any new habit, this will take practice. Trust your body. No one position is correct for the entire day. There will be times when you are completely unaware of how you are sitting. When your body sends you a signal (commonly known as discomfort), move around. Shift positions. Stand up and stretch. As you become familiar with supported sitting, you will find yourself using it often.
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Kathy Rooney
Advanced Certified Rolfer™